Archive for April, 2013

learning at home, week one.

Saturday, April 20th, 2013

Let me start by saying I’m not planning on turning Octolilly into just a homeschooling blog but since that is our New Big Thing at the moment, I’m probably going to write about it for a while.

As I referenced in my last post, we are spending from now until mid-June in a relaxing easing-out-of-school approach. My main goal is to see what he knows, what he loves, and what is looks like he needs to work on.

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Our first week has been full of: playing with the Chemistry set he received on his birthday, completing mathsheets, working on My Book about Me (from Aunt Cassidy quite awhile ago), drawing in his My First Writing Prompts Journal [you can see his entries in this homeschool album], watching the elementary school experiments that Col. Chris Hadfield did aboard the ISS, carrying a globe to the park and talking about the different friends we have who live around the world, playing games on his laptop (Minecraft and Plants vs. Zombies are his favorite at the moment – MC explores creativity and engineering and Plants vs. Zombies is all about timing and strategy), spending time at the library, and meeting new friends!

On Wednesday, I met with Drew’s kindergarten teacher for the last time and we had almost an hour of wonderful discussion while Drew had a tangible goodbye playdate to the classroom he’s known.

Drew's sweet goodbye to his teacher. She was VERY encouraging and excited about our foray into homeschooling.

I quickly realized I didn’t need to feel nervous talking about homeschooling with his teacher when she paused and said, “I got really emotional when you first told me and my husband and I spent some time this weekend talking about how nice it would have been to have this chance with our children.” We spread Drew’s busy work out on the desk and I looked at progress reports and statistics. Even though it doesn’t matter in the big picture of things, it did help to see his progress report stating that he already knew the things “required” by June. It was more confirmation that he was getting bored in class.

This doesn’t really mean I have a supergeniusbrainyboy on my hands. I think it’s more that everyone learns at different paces and in different ways and so the average pace (which is all a teacher can do, really) of Kindergarten was frustrating him immensely.

We got an invitation to a birthday party of one of his friends from school so that will be his big hoorah with his classmates the first week of May and then from there, we’ll figure which of them he’d like to stay in touch with and plan playdates. That is really the only “con” of pulling him out in April. He had to say goodbye now instead of in June. But all the pro’s obviously outweighed that.

One of the best changes we’ve noticed this week is how different Drew’s attitude is. He was becoming a rather obnoxious boy in the evenings. I mean, REALLY obnoxious. He was tired, bored, and visibly irritated at the end of each day. Over Christmas break, we noticed a HUGE difference in his behavior. When we were around older kids or some of our friends on the weekend – he would rise to the challenge and be very gentle and loving with other people. The same thing happened over Spring Break – he went from incredibly obnoxious and rude to really sweet. And this week? He’s been waking naturally each morning and has been happy to learn and play and explore.

Of course, it could also have something to do with eating healthier snacks during the day now. Oddly, all the Kindergarten classes at his school had daily snacks like red jello, Oreos, and rice crispie treats. I sent in healthy alternatives when I could but I still think it’s weird that they gave food like that to 5 and 6 year olds every day. And then expected them to sit still.

I consider this first week to be a success! And so does Drew. I think. I’ll go ask.

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He crawled out from his ginormous tent in the living room and said, “I like having LEGOs for choice time and I love having watermelon and I like this new tent and I really love math. The end. BLAH BLAH BLAH.”

P.S. I have a new Flickr set called “our homeschool adventure.”

off on a new adventure.

Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

This may be a bit of a surprise but we are now officially a home-schooling family.

I’m planning on using Oakmeadow (supplementing with Right Start math and Reading Eggs) when Drew begins first grade in the fall. But at the moment, we’re in the midst of a very relaxing un-schooling approach while we ease out of the routine of public school.

The two weirdest (most awesome) moments thus far:

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1) Shouting math problems over walkie-talkies in the forest.

2) Watching Drew put on a play about matter: a water balloon who is an evil old liquid lady fighting two balloons filled with gas.

a boy turns six.

Saturday, April 6th, 2013

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Drew turned six years old today and we celebrated with tacos, fondant everywhere, and talking about electricity until my brain hurts.

After Daniel visited his brother Ben (who was giving a presentation in Detroit) this morning, we piled into the living room for Present Time.

Our family lives throughout the United States now (South Carolina, Maryland, Missouri, Ohio, and West Virginia) and they generously sent boxes of birthday gifts for Drew. So we began with those.

a new bean bag from aunt sarah wheel toy ACTIVATE - from aunt cassidy & uncle steve

a book about EVERYTHING from aunt cassidy & uncle steve

a CHEMISTRY SET! trying to balance new toys

You can view the entire set of pictures here.

Of the presents we gave him, Adventure Time and science won HANDS DOWN.

[Adventure Time, for those who don’t know.]

drew the human he has spent all afternoon building and creating

This is the face of Drew the Human who hasn’t been able to stop putting snap circuits together.

rainbow cake!

I was incredibly worried that his birthday cake would flop but thankfully it didn’t! I made a rainbow cake with fondant so he could doodle on the cake. But fondant normally tastes gross so I used the recipe for rolled buttercream fondant on allrecipes. It was perfect! Well, it tasted perfect but as you can see in the picture above, I did have a wonky mistake on that one side.

However, it was impossible to use the edible color markers without sinking into the fondant. Maybe I should have let the fondant sit for a few hours first? I’m not sure. Either way, Drew added a few things to the cake and it was quickly evident that I needed to finish the doodles.

we're absolutely going to have to freeze the rest of this

I DID IT.

I had wondered if this cake would be an annual birthday tradition but the three of us agreed that the fondant was a little much. It’s a LOT of work and very rich and since the doodling didn’t turn out like we planned, this is probably our last fondant cake.

But I will totally make a rainbow cake again. It was easy and yummy.

chuckling  giggly

Drew has such a sneaky, wiggly, and joyful disposition. I love him dearly and I’m really thankful that I get to be his mama.

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And lastly, here is our yearly birthday video:

the questions: age six from Jennifer Bergey on Vimeo.

friday at lillie park.

Friday, April 5th, 2013

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We spent this afternoon at Lillie Park because fresh air and exercise are things we’ve been lacking lately. One more “slunsh” of snow (as Drew calls it), and I may lose my mind.

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A few minutes of playing on the actual playground and then we were off to explore the trails and wind our way around the lakes.

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A few days ago, Drew exclaimed, “I just WISH I had a nature collection.” So he took the opportunity to add twigs, acorns, dead leaves, and rocks to his Awesomely Dirty Basket of Nature. And I mourned remembered the precious Easter basket it had been a few days ago.

The most interesting part of our excursion was finding sap, watching Drew’s vaudeville performance each time he held a stick in two hands, and measuring the depth of the lake.

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We wore ourselves out, ran a few before-birthday errands, and then headed home.

I absolutely loved having warmer weather (it was 45 degrees while we were at the park – but that is MUCH better than the past few weeks) today and now I’m itching to visit more trails in Ann Arbor during April.

a wild bout appears.

Thursday, April 4th, 2013

It has been a forever moon since I’ve felt words. At least, any to share.

There wasn’t an intentional moment where I decided to stop writing. It just happened. And I’ve enjoyed a year of quiet yet busy days. I’ve made new friends here (and elsewhere) and as I’ve been reminded over and over in times past, community heals and often sparks wild bouts of creativity.

Here’s to a “wild bout” of writing regularly!