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prayer.

Wednesday, October 20th, 2004

I got a call this morning that my step-grandmother has to have open-heart surgery soon. The doctor spoke with her yesterday and said that the heart cath revealed more disturbing blockages than he was aware of.

She lives in Florida with my grandfather and they really don’t have anyone else there. So my Mom and I have to make some last minute plans about whether we fly down or not.

Mom has a full load with her Master’s classes right now (not to mention the frantic life of a first grade teacher) and I really have no idea if I can get away. But we don’t want them to be alone. Please pray that the Lord gives us wisdom about what to do and if flying down is the correct thing to do, then we have a bundle of things to arrange here.

And, I have a Very Big Issue that I’d appreciate your prayers on. This Issue is probably the biggest I’ve encountered in a very long time and it just up and created itself yesterday. There are a thousand reasons why I should be happy and yet there are a thousand reasons why I’m terrified.

Also, my boss just told me yesterday that I’m scheduled to attend training classes next week. Tuesday through Thursday. I don’t know if the training is being held downtown Greenville or if it’s in Columbia but that is also a factor in my going to Florida.

Needless to say, I’m a bit overwhelmed.

harmony kingdom.

Thursday, October 14th, 2004

My friend Lea has introduced me to the world of Harmony Kingdom. I absolutely must begin collecting these pieces.

Well, everything but the Road Kill set. Those are creepy.

These are the collections I want: Picturesque: Noah’s Park, Covets, and Disney (my favorites are the Alice in Wonderland pieces and ADORABLE Eeyore piece).

If you decide to look through the pieces, read the stories on each one. They are hand-carved and their stories are amazing.

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Also, my dad is getting worse and worse. The chemical burns are horrible and the doctor is afraid that it could get into his bloodstream. The antibiotics are supposed to be helping that but it’s a fear that we all have. Please pray that the Lord will help him mentally as well as physically. It’s difficult to be still when you are a man use to working hard. =

manly raincoat.

Wednesday, October 13th, 2004

This past Saturday, my dad and a few men decided to do some Manly Work around the church. They forfeited the idea of wearing raincoats to protect them against the Clorox they were using and just decided to tough it out.

Apparently, my dad was spraying Clorox on the building when a large amount hit the top of the roof and splattered back down on him. Completely bathing him in Clorox.

Do you have any idea of what that chemical can do to your body? Oh my word.

My dad has chemical burns all over his body right now and is having to stay home from work. And those of you who know my dad, you know that staying home from work is torture enough as it is.

Moral of the story: Wear protective raincoats when you spray chemicals. I’m sure you can even find a MANLY raincoat.

mimi.

Friday, October 1st, 2004

A year ago today, I touched your face and said goodbye. My tears were raw, my grief was real, and my questions were many.

I miss your laughter. Your stories. The nights on the back deck, trying to pretend that your cigarette smoke didn’t bother me. Complimenting you on your jewelry even though it was Tacky as pie.

My grief is somewhat selfish. I wanted you to be apart of my life for a much longer time. But I know you are in a better place. You are with the One who made you.

I love you, Mimi.

birds.

Thursday, April 8th, 2004

Nicholas Sparks shares a childhood memory in his new book entitled Three Weeks with My Brother.

One day, we spotted a raven in the trees, and were instantly captivated. We began following it as it moved from tree to tree….Pretty soon, we weren’t able to go anywhere near the school without seeing the raven. It was always around. The raven, we soon realized, was following us.

We began to feed it….and the raven grew more comfortable with us. We named the raven Blackie. Blackie was great. Blackie was cool. Blackie, we eventually discovered, was a monster. As interested as we were in the bird, we found out that the bird had become far more interested in us. Particularly our hair. Because we were blond, our hair gleamed in the sunlight, and ravens, we came to discover, love shiny things.

We were at the school one afternoon when Blackie suddenly came swooping towards us, diving at our heads over and over, like a fighter plane attacking a ship. Blackie swooped down and landed on my head, which was quite simply the most terrifying thing ever to happen to me in my young life. I panicked, unable to breathe, unable to move a muscle. I could feel Blackie’s claws digging into my head, and- as if to amplify the horror- Blackie began to peck hard, its head bobbing up and down like the oil pumps in Oklahoma. I screamed. Blackie pecked harder. And that’s how it went. Peck, scream. Peck, scream. Peck, scream. Peck, scream. 

His story reminded me of a terrible trauma that occurred when I was a child.

The afternoon was filled with balloons, cake, and fun as Jon celebrated his 7th birthday. We were all gathered at my Granny’s house, eating, laughing and doing the weird things that kids do. At someone else’s prompting, the kids went outside to play and we began a rambunctious chase through the green grass. I was squealing as Jon and David chased me through the yard when the monster of the skies began circling in the clouds.

We saw the shadow on the ground, heard the shrill cries, and looked up to see a bird overhead. I’m not sure if it was the fear of the unknown, or the panicky tone of Jon’s screaming, but I turned pale white and scrunched my eyes shut tightly.

But the fear and panicky tone was nothing compared to the intense pain I felt when the bird swooped down and attached itself to my hair. It had landed in my blond curls and would absolutely not let go. I remember weeping, shouting for my daddy, and then seeing my Papa rush out of the house waving a large laundry basket in the air. Jon was shouting, “It’s a baby eagle!” Mom was screaming, “Stanley, get that bird out of her hair!” Dad was just sort of laughing, I think. But Papa sure didn’t think it was too funny.

In an attempt to knock the bird off of my head, he clobbered me in the head with the laundry basket and I fell to the ground, crying. The bird finally let go of my hair and they kept it under the basket for a very long time. As punishment. Well, actually, it was more like what on earth do we do with this bird?

Pretty Bird (why on earth they chose to name the monster that, I’ll never know) ended up living at Granny’s house until last year. She woke up one morning and he was just lying in the bottom of the cage.